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Disappointed

Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 9:27 pm
by Mac
I was going to post this on Marhals Forum, but there again it would not be seen by the majority of club members..

Some weeks ago I posted my Birthday trip on 2nd May and Iguana very kindly suggested that instead of a BBQ that he would provide a full sheep, salad etc @50 dhs per head. This would involve Iguana organising the meal to be delivered to the desert by a non trip member. Many members signed up for the trip. Suddenly other Marshals announce trips for this date and people drop out of my trip to join others leaving me confused as to who is attending after Iguana has arranged the meal for a certain number of people.

I have received many SMS and PM,s dropping out as people are joining other trips. Have you any idea how much planning goes into trips on your behalf. For this trip I travelled to Khatim one afternoon, spotted out the deflation point/ meal point etc. I am seriously thinking that this will be my last trip as a Marshal, it has taken the shine off what I thought would be a great birthday.

I thought that we had sorted this out on the Marshal forum, but obviously not. If you sign up for a trip make sure that you commit to it, exceptions should be personal/job related not another trip which appeals to you.

Who stands the loss for the provided meal?? I will still enjoy my day with those of you are attending, but food for thought!!

Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 12:22 am
by iguana
No worries Mac. You cannot force members to attend a trip and you know the dark side of the club very well.

I agree with you on your disappointment. I had the same last week with XOF Family trip when only 5 of the 11 confirmed members show up on the meeting point. However, we still enjoyed our trip.

Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 7:09 am
by jc
Sorry for your disappointment Mac, you cannot control Human Nature, when we are faced with too many choices decisions become hard to make.

I will be there along with my family to once again enjoy the company of friends we have made in the short time we have been in Abu Dhabi, for those who dropped out it is their loss not yours.

:bday: :bday: Mac

Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 8:08 am
by Mac
Thanks Iguana & JC, this is nothing to do with the fact that it is my birthday at all, it is to do with the planning, phone calls, SMS PM,s that go into planning a trip for the benefit of the members. Anyway Rant over, let.s have a good day :lol:

Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 8:26 am
by Bulldozer
Its the celebration day MAC let it GO, enjoy your day & all the coming days :party:

Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 9:26 am
by DiVeR
MAC what happened is not disappointing :roll: What i see is less number of people with more delecious food to eat :wink: that's great MAC :lol: :lol:

Happy birthday my friend :bday: You know i would be the 1st one to come :cry:

Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 11:58 am
by Jax
Happy Birthday Mac - there is no way I will miss your birthday celebration in the desert - just sorry I can't do the trip too, but you know why :wink:

Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 12:21 pm
by Mac
Sorry Jax, does this mean you will not be with us on the drive at all? Just meeting us later?
Thanks Mac

Posted: Fri May 02, 2008 3:41 pm
by Tutan
The same thing happened with Lucknow's Family day, this catered for x number of people and only Y participated thus he ended up out of pocket, I had provided the water and drinks (reduced cost from work) , i ended up with juice and water coming out of my ears, eventually throwing most of it away as there is only so much juice you can consume....

Definitly a tricky one, i remember catering for quiz nights in the uk, always a bit of a worry whether enough people will turn up to allow the costs to be absorbed.

I think lesson to be learnt- always have self catering, ie by car.

Hopefully you will have a great birthday trip and the no show'ers will be dissapointed in what they have missed.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 12:24 am
by agghazal
i agree with u my freind espicaly the food side and i think after that if there is catering collect the money before u palcinag an order .
at the end happy birtday mac and i enjoyed alot with my family .